Skull, Melting Face, Clown: What Internet Emoji Actually Mean
Their Unicode names say skull, clown face, folded hands. Online they say "I'm dead", "I did this to myself" and "please". Here is what 17 of the most common ones are really doing.
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Unicode gives every emoji a name, and online almost nobody uses it. ๐ is named "skull" and means "that was so funny I died". ๐คก is named "clown face" and is nearly always aimed at the person sending it. The names are the literal picture; the meanings are what a few years of group chats did to them.
Here are the ones worth knowing, grouped by the job they do. Every example copies with one tap.
Laughing: ๐ โฐ๏ธ ๐ญ
The laughing marker moved. ๐ was Oxford Dictionaries' word of the year in 2015 and has since aged into something a lot of younger users read as a parent's emoji. What replaced it is ๐: not death, but "I'm dead", the thing you say when something is too funny. โฐ๏ธ escalates it. ๐ญ does not mean sadness in this context either; it marks intensity, and reads as laughing or as being moved depending on what it follows.
Skull
"I'm dead", i.e. that was so funny it killed me. Not about death, and rarely about danger.
Coffin
The escalation of ๐. Sent on its own, it means the joke finished you off.
Loudly crying face
Volume, not sadness. It marks any strong reaction, including laughing and being moved.
Embarrassment and self-deprecation: ๐ซ ๐คก ๐ฟ ๐ง
This group is about being the one who messed up. ๐ซ is the smile you keep while everything slides. ๐คก says you were the fool, and pointing it at someone else is an insult, so it is safest reserved for yourself. ๐ฟ is deadpan, the face with no comment left. ๐ง is you, standing there, while the room gets quiet.
Melting face
Embarrassment you are smiling through, or being quietly overwhelmed. Added in Emoji 14.0 (2021).
Clown face
Almost always aimed at yourself: I was the fool here.
Moai
Deadpan. The face you make when there is nothing to say.
Person standing
Standing there while the situation gets awkward. Added in Emoji 12.0 (2019).
Asking and being moved: ๐ฅบ ๐ฅน ๐ฅฒ
๐ฅบ begs. Combined with two pointing fingers as ๐ฅบ๐๐ it became the standard shy-request combo. ๐ฅน is the good kind of nearly crying: proud, touched, about to lose it at a wedding. ๐ฅฒ is the bitter one, a smile with a single tear, for when you say it is fine and it is not.
Pleading face
Begging, or being cute about asking. The classic pairing is ๐ฅบ๐๐.
Shy asking
Pleading face plus two fingers poking together: "um, can I ask you something?"
Face holding back tears
Moved, proud of someone, about to cry in a good way. Emoji 14.0 (2021).
Smiling face with tear
A bitter laugh: it is fine, really. Emoji 13.0 (2020).
Tone markers: โจ ๐ซก ๐ ๐
These do not add content, they change how the sentence is read. โจ wrapped around a phrase marks sarcasm or mock ceremony. ๐ซก acknowledges an order with a straight face that is usually a joke. ๐ and ๐ are the two most misread emoji on this list: a plain ๐ lands as passive aggression more often than as friendliness, and ๐ is the one you send when it is fine and it is very much not.
Sparkles
Wrapped around a phrase, โจlike thisโจ, it marks sarcasm or mock fanfare.
Saluting face
"Understood", with a straight face that is usually joking. Emoji 14.0 (2021).
Slightly smiling face
Read as passive aggression far more often than as a smile. Use with care.
Upside-down face
Resigned irony: this is fine, nothing is fine.
The ones people get wrong
๐ is "folded hands" and reads as please or thank you. The long-running claim that it is a high five is a myth: the Japanese carriers it came from used it for gratitude and request, and Unicode's own name never said anything about hands meeting in the air.
๐ is the other one. It is a plain acknowledgement to most people over about thirty, and a curt, faintly hostile full stop to a lot of people under it. Nothing about the character changed; the reading did, and it varies by group, so it is worth noticing which way your particular chat uses it.
๐โโ๏ธ is newer and less ambiguous: a head nodding, meaning yes. It is a ZWJ sequence added in Emoji 15.1 in 2023, so on an older phone it breaks apart into a face and an arrow, which is a good reminder of the next section.
Folded hands
Please, or thank you. It has never been a high five, whatever you were told.
Head nodding
Yes, agreed. A ZWJ sequence from Emoji 15.1 (2023), so older devices show ๐ and an arrow.
Check the other person can see it
Half of this list is recent. ๐ซ , ๐ฅน and ๐ซก arrived in Emoji 14.0 in 2021, ๐ฅฒ in Emoji 13.0 in 2020, ๐โโ๏ธ in Emoji 15.1 in 2023. Emoji ship with operating system updates, so a device that has not been updated in a few years renders them as an empty box, and a ZWJ sequence like ๐โโ๏ธ falls apart into its pieces instead.
If a message has to land on unknown hardware, the safe set is the old one: ๐ ๐ โค๏ธ ๐ have been in the standard since 2010. Why that happens, and what the empty box actually means, is the subject of the other article here.